tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30843642456005887442024-02-21T08:28:46.558-08:00Anwar's Surrogacy JourneyAnwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-45891599179188726022016-03-16T11:09:00.002-07:002016-03-16T11:17:32.753-07:00SmartKidParenting<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-44258687581019123782014-09-15T10:32:00.002-07:002014-09-15T10:33:07.413-07:00What a difference a YEAR makes!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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a year and it has been an amazing ride so far (bday pics below).</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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healthy babies. Not sure how often I will keep this blog up, but I thought I
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-38575890547501032202014-01-04T11:48:00.002-08:002014-01-04T11:49:26.723-08:00Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Holiday Shoot<br />
My good friend Erickson did me a big favor and did a holiday photoshoot with me, Cece, and the babes. It gave me great pleasure to send my family holiday cards this season. It was a very stark realization that I have a family now. Here are some of my favs from the shoot!<br />
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Gaydadswag.com<br />
There is this new website called Gaydadswag.com and they gave me and the babes a quick shout out on their website, so I wanted to give them a shoutout as well. It is a cute site that celebrates and brings together gay dads all around the world.<br />
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Back to Work<br />
Thursday 1/2/14 was my first day at work and it went well. I was surprised that I still had a lot of energy after work. I guess taking care of twins full time for 4 months was a lot more intense than a 8-5pm executive job. =)<br />
We will see how the rest of the first month back goes.<br />
I know many parents have separation anxiety going back to work but I didn't necessarily have that. I guess my mentality is that I have to work to provide for them so I'm a little less emotional about it all.<br />
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DayCare Search<br />
The daycare search is pretty much over. I was working with an agency and finally settled on an amazing provider who lives less than 3 minutes from me and is on my way to work. That was a big stress and weight taken off of my shoulders.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-72208665466085457922013-12-09T11:03:00.002-08:002013-12-09T11:06:11.149-08:00Happy Thanksgiving @ 3months!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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The babes are now 3 months and much more active and cognizant of everything around them. I don't know what it was but when 3 months hit, the colicky crying and so just stopped. I'm definitely very thankful for that! They are amazing me everyday, to there incessant fascination with art around my house to their physical abilities to stand on their own and turn their heads with complete ease. Life with them has been just great! They are sleeping through the night have been doing so for the past month. Again, I recommend 12 hours in 12 weeks for anyone who has worries about their kids potentially not sleeping through the night. The kids are currently sleeping from 830pm-730am every night, with two naps (morning and afternoon at 1.5/2 hours each). They are also very happy babies. They smile almost all the time which also makes me feel good as a parent. Ravi is starting to really do a lot of baby talk and Zora can't stop smiling.<br />
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Extension<br />
I was suppose to return to work today but I have extended my paternity leave for another month and will be returning to work on the 2nd of January. I am super excited about this because I am definitely not ready to leave the babes, which is probably why I have been dragging my feet with the nanny search. My sister will be looking after them for the first two weeks of January so that I can leisurely find someone suitable to watch the babes.<br />
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Ambition<br />
Ya know, I thought having children would make me less ambitious as it pertains to my careers but I have actually become more ambitious! I want more, not just for me, but for my family. This is why I have began looking for more lucrative opportunities as well as potentially looking for places to live that are a bit less expensive and safer than the Bay Area.<br />
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Although Thanksgiving was like a week ago, I wasn't feeling up to creating a post on here. But I am so thankful for my children (and their excellent health), my family and my friends, who have been so ultimately supportive!<br />
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In the last month, I have met someone who I actually really really like. Not going to go into too many details on here, but wanted to mention it, as it has become a significant part of my life. He is a nice German guy, who is sweet and caring. We have a lot in common and I look forward to what will come of it.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-30534886311201885522013-11-03T17:09:00.002-08:002013-11-03T17:09:37.030-08:00Happy Halloween!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Happy Halloween to all!<br />
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-From Elephant, Lion, and Zookeeper<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-27452224215748234572013-10-29T14:02:00.002-07:002013-10-29T14:02:29.064-07:00My Baby Love, My Baby Love...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Ohhhh how much I love Paternity leave. It has been amazing just to be home with the babes. They surprise me and teach me something about myself everyday. I am super grateful to have them.<br />
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Back Home:<br />
The flight back from India was pretty uneventful. My Mom and I were super surprised the babes traveled so well. It was a 20 hour flight and they slept for 90% of the time. I attribute it to the voodoo called Baby Bjorn and the white noise of the planes. All in all, I was a very proud papa! We had a slight stop in London where Mom and I met up with Jerry again and he was able to meet and hold the babes. All he could say in his thick british accent was... Anwar, my word, am I holding them right?" =)<br />
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Once in SF, Cyncere picked us up from the airport. By this time, I'm complete out of it. I will say that Virgin Atlantic was a dream to fly, especially with the babes. They really took care of us and always made sure we had everything we need, including an entire row to ourselves. We never wanted for anything.<br />
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Babes have acclimated nicely to Bay Area living. They are health nuts and love walking everyday. Of course they are superstars where ever they go.. aka the twin phenomenon. They are gaining weight like monsters and their first pediatrician appt and Ravi's circumcision went all well. I have their 2-month visit next Thursday, where we are to receive all of the vaccinations. I'm a bit nervous but looking forward to their supreme health after the vaccinations.<br />
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I was easily able to put them on my insurance and received their social security cards in the mail a couple of weeks ago. It is funny what people will do for a 'single dad with twins'... let's just say I'm milking it for all its worth.<br />
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I have been following the sleep training strategy of the book 12 hours in 12 weeks and it seems to be going really well. The real training has started last Friday and I have already seen great progress in their night sleeping. I put them down at 8pm, after their bath. They wake up at 1am and 5am although I can already see us phasing out that 5am feeding, since they barely drink any milk during that feeding.<br />
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Halloween is right around the corner and we excited over here. Ravi will be an Elephant and Zora will be a Lion (their spirit animals). I, of course, will be the zookeeper! Pics soon to follow.<br />
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Friends<br />
My Bay Area friends have been so amazing. They are coming over and visiting and meeting the babes. They have been so supportive and helpful already with all of the check-ins and food delivery they have been doing. It has been really amazing. Below are some pics of them in action...<br />
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GMA is here looking after the babes with me. Her visit has been a god-send. She has been so helpful in all aspects of our daily routine. I especially love the daily walks we take. It means a lot to me that my children were able to experience her love and presence (even if at a very young age).<br />
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On the second day here, she told me I was an awesome parent and that really melted my heart. It is something I will never forget. I especially like discussing all the new parenting opinions/thoughts/mentality vs. her old-school methods. It has been eye-opening for us both. She leaves on Sunday and she will be sorely missed. Because of her, I was able to go out and see friends without worrying about the babes.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-36855747213488184852013-09-29T02:11:00.001-07:002013-09-29T02:11:08.924-07:00As a Chapter Closes... Another Chapter begins!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Wow! These last two weeks have been a blur, but a very good blur! The babes are just so much fun!<br />
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1)Birth Certificates - I finalized these on my first day and picked them up the next day (5000 Rps each)<br />
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2)Passport Photos - Photographer came and took pics of the babes. Ravi was fine with this but Zora did not enjoy having her hands held down to get a good shot but we finally got usable ones. I paid 1000 Rps and received about 20 photos each as well as electronic copies (which were very useful for the FRRO online application.<br />
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3)Pay Final SCI Bill and receive Documents - I had SCI make 2 physical copies (1 for the US embassy and 1 for FRRO) and an electronic copy. SCI was a huge help in making sure all the documentation was correct and copied appropriately.<br />
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4) Passport Application/DNA Test at US Embassy - Passport App was about $205 each and the DNA sample cost 1600Rps each (Bank draft was not necessary, but preferable). Total time took about 2 hours.<br />
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5) Pick Up Passports at US Embassy - After 4 business days I got the confirmation that I am the fathe rof these children. Whew! You never know, ya know. It was a big relief, because I knew once I got their passports we would be close to the end. US Embassy gave me emergency passports good for 1 year.<br />
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6)FRRO - I came here right after picking up the passports. It is advisable to make your appointment ASAP as they let you in based on your appt time allotted, although they will let everyone in after 1:30 as thats when things die down. They first told me they wanted to re-verify my application (I think it was slight harassment for being single and assumed as LGBT). They threatened that it would take 10 days even though my flight was leaving 3 days from the date. After begging and pleading and letting them know I was "on the list", they told me to come back the next day. I went to SCI and they let me know that everything would be fine. I went to the FRRO the next day and got the exit visas without a problem. I was dealing with the same people but the treatment was like night and day. I just wanted to let singles and LGBT people know to be careful as the FRRO might mess with you, but as long as you are on 'the list' you should be fine.<br />
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Overall the process went well and smoothly. I am happy and grateful that SCI had prepared me well.<br />
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The Babes are just lovely. I am still in amazement that they are here and real. I was trying to explain that 'this surrogacy process' kinda consumes you for such a long time, it becomes a part if not all of you. It is weird to know that 'the process' is over, and parenthood begins.<br />
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I am so grateful to have them. Twins are really unbelievable. We try to keep them together because surprisingly enough, they tend to soothe each other.<br />
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As you can see, Ravi has very long arms (just like his father). They both have 'mama' second toes longer than their 'papa' big toe, just like me as well. They definitely have my bigger lips and Ravi has my huge eyes. It is fascinating to see the similarities.<br />
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As I leave India...I must thank:<br />
SCI for partnering with me to help create my two miracles Zora and Ravi<br />
The blog family for their hope, inspiration, and abundance of information<br />
My family and friends for their undying love and support<br />
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I think it is safe to say that life has gotten super busy and I probably won't be posting every week, but will try to get on here at least once a month to give updates. I hope this blog has helped others and I thank you for following me on this journey. Until the next feeding...<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-47251634253247778472013-09-12T20:22:00.000-07:002013-09-12T20:22:20.237-07:00Journey of a Lifetime (Beginning)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Wow, what a crazy last 48 hours it has been.<br />
Before I left, I had some of my friends stop by and wish me well. Below you will find a pic of my friend Jeff getting me some matching outfits for the babes. <br />
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That next day Mom and I set off for the "Adventure of a Lifetime". Here is a pic as we set off from the San Francisco Airport.<br />
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We flew Virgin Atlantic and stopped in London. We had about 5-6 hours to spare so I decided to show my Mom around the town. My Mom had never been to London (or even Europe for that matter), so it was great to experience London with her. She had a ball. Here's us in front of the London Bridge (completely sleep deprived).<br />
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From there we headed off to Delhi. I could not sleep at all on the plane because I was so excited. As we got through customs, we saw one of Rahul's driver awaiting us. This is a huge difference from last year when I came into Delhi and 1am and my driver from the hotel was not there and I had to argue with a driver to take me all the way to the neighborhood GK-2. The smoothness of this trip has been a blessing. We got into our hotel room, I went and picked up fresh Aquafina water, and then we headed to the hospital to pick up the babes. When we got to the hospital, we could see that they were sleeping next to each other (swaddled down), which was great.<br />
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There was a little drama at the hospital as there was a slight miscommunication as to when we would arrive and be ready to pick up the babies, but it was all cleared up and the process took an hour. Here's a pic of me first holding my girl Zora Jacinda:<br />
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Fellow SCI blogger and friend Fred asked me what was I thinking when I first laid eyes on them.<br />
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As I held them my arms shook. It was finally real and it was amazing. Being so removed from the process is a bit difficult, but makes this first moment so special. It is truly unbelievable.<br />
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While at the hospital, I met a couple from San Francisco who were picking up their twins. This was the second time they had used SCI (they had a 2 year-old daughter already). We exchanged information and wished each other well. I expect many play dates in the future with them.<br />
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Below are some pics from the ride 'home' to the hotel:<br />
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I will say that I am so glad my Mom is with me for obvious reasons. But it became super apparent to me how amazing she is. Once we got to the hotel, the babes started crying in unison and I was a bit frozen; the dreaded twins double team! Mom jumped right into action and worked it all out! Amazing! The first couple of days has been a really great mini-Mom boot camp. I have learned a lot.<br />
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About the Babes, just some tidbts:<br />
They are strong and healthy. I am surprised how alert and active they are. They both loving having their arms free<br />
They are both very social and their eyes follow my voice and look right at me. I was surprised to see that they are both trying to hold their heads up. <br />
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Zora is more vocal while Ravi is more chill.<br />
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<li>Both the babies are healthy and fine.</li>
<li>Both the babies are on Demand Feed.</li>
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Dr. Shivani said, and I quote, "They are chubby and adorable. Amazing weights for twins. Cheers"<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com29tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-52587062888252577852013-09-07T07:29:00.000-07:002013-09-07T07:43:22.721-07:00Baby Shower Pics<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hope everyone is doing well.<br />
I finally got the pics to my baby shower:<br />
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Was it a baby shower or a frat party?... you be the judge.<br />
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Also, my Mom came into town on Wednesday in preparation for the flight to India on Monday. We are all super excited for the babes to come. I'm so glad she is here.<br />
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On Thursday, my work threw me a surprise baby shower and breakfast. It was so sweet. They all pitched in a got me a Target gift card with an amount on it that blew my mind. Let's just say, I can get everything the babies need during my paternity leave, and more. What a blessing! I was telling my Mom earlier that I consider myself a pretty independent person and try not to put an expectations on anyone because I know that I can do for myself. So when people go out of their way to help or support me, it really does touch. I am so grateful.<br />
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My last day of work was this Friday... so let's bring on the babies. I mean we are already in week 37. I think it might be a record for SCI twins, hahaha.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-46763396862523329162013-08-26T12:11:00.001-07:002013-08-26T12:30:08.250-07:00Final Scan and Report<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Scan: Last Thursday, as many of you know, my surrogate was admitted to the hospital with mild contractions and extreme nausea. On Friday, the clinic sent the last and final report and scan for the babes and surromom (see below).<br />
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<i>Dear Anwar,<br /><br />We hope you are doing well.<br />We would like to inform you that we have done a USG scan for L as per our obstetrician's advise.<br />Kindly find attached herewith reports of the same.<br />We would like to inform you that our obstetrician has reviewed the reports & found everything within normal limit.<br /><br />Your babies are also doing well.<br />However, L is still in the hospital and undergoing necessary medical treatment.<br />We are keeping very close eyes on her pregnancy.<br /><br />Our medical staff have been reviewing her on regular intervals and taking further actions accordingly.<br />We will keep you updated with her further progress & new status.<br /><br />With Best Regards, <br />Yogita</i><br />
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It is good to see that the babes are growing so much. Each of them is about 5lbs and 8 ounces. I am not sure how much faith to put into this report though. Either way, the babes seem to be healthy, and that makes me happy. Their measurements seem to be on the lower percentages on this scan, which means I am going to have to feed them tons when they leave the womb! I am starting to get the feeling that both babes will be girls, I don’t know why. Anyway, in a couple of weeks, I will know exactly what gender they will be. <br />
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I just want to take some time to acknowledge and honor the surrogates that go through so much (more than any of us IPs know) to create these miracles we call babies. Pregnancy is seriously no joke and these women are so strong to be doing this. Having my surrogate admitted in the hospital reminded me of this. I hope my children will exhibit similar illustrations of strength in their lifetime. <br />
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Update: Today, I received an update on my surromom’s condition. She is doing much better and they are discharging her! Yay!<br />
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<i>Dear Anwar,<br /><br />We hope you are doing fine.<br />We are here again with new updates of L.<br /><br />As per our recent discussion with our obstetrician we would like to inform you that she is doing fine. With respect to the same our medical team has decided to get her discharged from the hospital. Please note that she will be out from the hospital by today evening.<br /><br />We will keep you updated with her further progress & new status.<br /><br />With Regards,<br />Yogita</i><br />
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My Mom seems to think that this episode was due to two things: 1) L might have caught an infection of some sort and 2) her body is starting to let her know it is close to delivery date. My Mom said she had similar episodes (Braxton Hicks) and gave birth to each of her children a couples weeks afterward. I’m hoping the L does the same thing. =)<br />
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Welcome home!: And finally, I want to give a quick shout out to Blogger Fred who came home (to the US) this past weekend. Welcome home! Now the real fun starts!</div>
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Wow, times are a changing!<br />
I received an email from SCI that my surrogate is having mild contractions and is being admitted in the hospital. Me and the family are on the edge of our seats. I told myself that I will not pack until I officially hear that they are born (if earlier than my originally scheduled flight). I currently have everything that will be packed in their crib. FYI, if you are having twins, I would schedule your flight around week 36 (not week 38.5 as instructed). Through all of the research I have done, I haven’t heard of any twins being born after week 37 through surrogacy in India. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.<br />
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Update as I am writing this post:<br />
Just got word from Dr. Shivani that the labor has not progressed and that we are in the clear for now. Wow, I am so happy and grateful that they will stay longer in the womb and grow as big as possible. I believe the scare was to inform my surrogate (and everyone else) to get ready for these babies! THEY ARE A COMIN’!<br />
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Let’s ROCK!<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-53917088922451126052013-08-15T11:57:00.001-07:002013-08-15T11:57:26.018-07:00Baby Shower!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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What an amazing weekend! One for the record books, for sure!</div>
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All of my close friends and family were there. My mom even surprised Cyncere and me on Thursday night. That was the shock of a lifetime. It was really good to have my Mom there. My best friend Yui also came (from NYC) and was a lifesaver in helping out with the prep for the party! There were a ton of people that came from all over the US. It was just so awesome. So many pics to come but we are still getting them together, but here are a few:</div>
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-‘Guess whats in that diaper ‘(9 different diapers with different chocolates and baby food) – Winner – Christophe/Rachael</div>
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Toward the end of the party, I opened the gifts. It was so amazing to receive so many gifts. I was so touched, even got a bit emotional. To know how much love there was for these babies before their birth was so overwhelming, I just couldn’t take it. All I can say is that I am so grateful to have such supportive and amazing friends and family. It is so obvious that these kids will have a village to help raise them.<br />
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The Nursery is finally complete. The theme of the nursery is “Oh the places you’ll go” complete with time zone clocks, a map, and pictures of worldy monuments. I really like how it turned out. The pic doesn’t do it justice, but here ya go.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-30336521708423494142013-08-03T12:37:00.002-07:002013-08-03T12:37:21.184-07:00In One Month...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<i>We would like to inform you that Dr. Shivani has reviewed the
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The scans at this point don't really show much of anything these days but I am still grateful that SCI sends them. I asked about the "Single Circum nuchal loop of cord seen" comment and the doctor assured me that it would continue to be monitored but should not be cause for concern. That was a relief to hear. The babes are about 4 lbs each! They are growing so much in these last few weeks, I am just amazed at this entire process!</div>
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Over at my house it is baby central!<i> </i>The baby shower is next week and I am getting so excited! This one of the few times in my life where people from all of my life will come together (apart from my wedding and funeral). I am so touched that people will come and celebrate this very important time in my life. </div>
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I have also been keeping up with my SCI brother Fred (http://indiansurrogacywithfred.blogspot.com/) as he has arrived in India to pick up his babies. This morning I woke up 5am to Facetime with him. He is absolutely on cloud 9, and he has complete reason to be:</div>
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His kids (Camden and Chase) are so gorgeous. They move so much and are so expressive. I still can't get past all the hair they have! What angels! Watching his process gets me so excited about mine. I can't wait to pick up the babes!</div>
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Other things that happened this week for me:</div>
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-I turned in my Visa application and I will be picking it up on Tuesday, hopefully. BLS is the new Visa Processing Company. It used to be Travisa. BLS is pretty horrible in terms of service and clarity in the process. They didn't honor my online application (good thing I had copies of everything). They also didn't have change for the cash I paid and forced me to get my own change at a nearby hospital.</div>
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It was a bit frustrating but I'm glad that part of the process is done. Let's hope that they fulfill their promise of getting me my Visa in 5 business days, which people on Yelp have said it takes a bit longer sometimes. I am setting the intention to pick it up on Tuesday though! =)</div>
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-I completed a letter to my unborn children. Babycenter advises that parents do it and I thought it was a good idea so I did it. It was a great reminder about my own values and what I wish for my kids in this world. It helped me put some things in perspective. As someone who takes pride in achieving, writing this letter really helped me understand that at the endof the day i just want my kids to be good, well intentioned people. It is that simple.</div>
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-83392154092900739572013-07-29T18:28:00.001-07:002013-07-29T18:28:30.852-07:00Surprise Getaway Weekend!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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What an amazing weekend I had. My friends Jeff and Francis took me (and
<span class="SpellE">Cece</span>) on a surprise getaway weekend, where I
had no idea where we were going or what we were doing. I got two
instructions 1) bring a bathing suit and 2) bring a set of retro
clothes. And I did just that!
<span class="SpellE">Pics</span> soon to follow. They picked us up on Saturday morning and we had a nice breakfast waiting for them. My other close friend,
<span class="SpellE">McFierce</span>, looked after the dogs for us (so
nice!). We headed up north and ended up at a hotel in Sacramento, where
we laid by the pool and just relaxed, ate, drank, and were merry! After
that, we headed out to an undisclosed location,
while listening to old school hip hop! We finally ended up at the Cache
Casino where we gambled doing Blackjack and Slots and got free meals!
Around 8pm we went to the internal club where we saw none other than
Salt N
<span class="SpellE">Pepa</span>! It was an amazing experience! They
performed all their hits and even invited some people to be on stage
while they performed ‘Push It’. Jeff,
<span class="SpellE">Cece</span>, and I hopped on stage and were dancing hard in the background. It was amazing. After the song was over, I gave both Salt and
<span class="SpellE">Pepa</span> a hi-five! It was unreal! <span class="SpellE">Cece</span>
and I were shaking afterwards! What an unforgettable experience.
Afterward we gambled some more. All in all, I lost about 35 bucks, which
I didn’t think was bad! We
then headed back to <span class="SpellE">Sactown</span>, where we went
out to a club Faces, which was completely mixed! I had a great time and
the music was pretty good (although I wondered why they would play Al
Green in a hip-hop room, talk about killing
a certain mood)! The next morning we lazily chilled in bed, had brunch,
and then headed back to the Bay Area! It was truly an awesome weekend.
I’m so thankful to have Jeff, Francis, and
<span class="SpellE">McFierce</span> as friends and family. The planning
and efforts to keep it all a secret was just so touching. I don’t think
anyone has ever done that for me, so I definitely appreciated it ALL.
What a blessing to have them in my life. This
is a great reminder on why I moved back to the Bay!</div>
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On a different note, I wanted to send a big
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He is so awesome and has been such a great support
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After getting word yesterday from Fred, it really
put a fire under me because these babies are coming sooner than one
thinks so I have got to get it together. I have my visa appointment
tomorrow, and I’m looking at SUVs all this week. My
plan is to buy on this weekend. I’m also in the process of getting all
my India paperwork together! OMG! These babies are coming, y’all!</div>
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Ya know the SCI family has been nothing but supportive and helpful.<br />
I recently received an informational email about what I needed to pick up the babies so I thougth I would share in the hope that others can have an easy time. Shout out to Pookiepowder, you know who you are!<br />
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DNA:<br />
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This is the email I got when I set up the appt for the DNA test. <br />
1. Original birth certificate and a photocopy of the same for the children. <br />
2. Original passport and a photocopy of the accompanying US/Indian citizen parent of the children. <br />
3. Two photographs of the child and one of the accompanying US/Indian citizen parent(s). 4. The clinic charges Rs. 1600 per sample taken and applicants should pay by abank draft at the time of sample collection. In case more than one sample is to be taken, a single demand draft of the combined amount for the total number of samples can be made. The draft should be made out to MAX Healthcare Institute Ltd, payable at New Delhi. (The easiest bank for non-Indian nationals to obtain a bank draft is SBI – the State Bank of India. Your hotel and/or driver should be able to point you in the right direction). Once the testing is done at the Embassy, the DNA kit is then sent by courier to the laboratory for analysis. To assure your departure is not delayed, we recommend you contact the laboratory to verify the kit was received, and also to ensure the DNA results are processed expeditiously. All test results must be forwarded directly from the laboratory by email to <a href="mailto:ndboxdna@state.gov">ndboxdna@state.gov</a>. <br />
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Great resources: <br />
<a href="http://ourgeminidragons.emaginations.com/wp/?page_id=826">http://ourgeminidragons.emaginations.com/wp/?page_id=826</a><br />
<a href="http://ourgeminidragons.emaginations.com/wp/?p=454">http://ourgeminidragons.emaginations.com/wp/?p=454</a><br />
<a href="http://mydreamsareinfaroffplaces.blogspot.com/2013/06/packing.html">http://mydreamsareinfaroffplaces.blogspot.com/2013/06/packing.html</a><br />
<a href="http://aaronandeddy.blogspot.com/">http://aaronandeddy.blogspot.com/</a><br />
<a href="http://cyberkhanfamily.blogspot.com/2011/12/what-worked-for-us-in-delhi-and-what.html">http://cyberkhanfamily.blogspot.com/2011/12/what-worked-for-us-in-delhi-and-what.html</a><br />
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Embassy & FRRO FRRO: <br />
1. Application - <a href="http://indianfrro.gov.in/frro/">http://indianfrro.gov.in/frro/</a><br />
2. Undertaking letter - They basically want you to write that you will take care of the children<br />
3. Flight confirmation information for you and the children<br />
4. Form "C" from hotel or apartment manager<br />
5. Surrogacy Agreement - provided by SCI<br />
6. No objection Letter from the surrogate - provided by SCI<br />
7. Embryology Report - provided by SCI<br />
8. Delivery Report - provided by SCI<br />
9. Embryology Letter - provided by SCI<br />
10. Discharge Letter - provided by SCI<br />
11. Parent’s Passports <br />
12. Children’s Passports<br />
13. Children’s Birth Certificate<br />
14. Marriage Certificate<br />
15. Copy of Medical Visa Registration from FRRO<br />
When we went to get our medical visa registered, the reception person at the FRRO said we did not need to because it was not over 6 months and there was no stamp on it that said we needed to. I was not comfortable with that so I asked the gentleman at the in-charge desk. He confirmed that what the reception person was correct but that he will register my visa for me because it doesn't hurt and it doesn't cost. Good thing I didn't take no for an answer because once I got to immigration at the New Delhi airport, our visa registration form was the first thing they asked for.<br />
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US Embassy <br />
1. Passport Application<br />
2. CRBA Form<br />
3. Social Security Benefits Statement Printout<br />
4. Copy of passport page with picture and visa page<br />
5. Passport photo of children <br />
Items that I had copies of but can’t remember if they took a copy:<br />
Certification of Naturalization or Birth Certificate <br />
Front and Back of Drivers License <br />
Social Security Card <br />
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DNA Kit - I used chromosomal labs cost $796. They only do this on Tuesdays at the Embassy so set your appointment to do your ACS and DNA test on Tues. so you don't have to go twice. We did ours on July 2 and the results came back on July 9. I did not pay for the extra $200 rush fee. July 4 was a holiday. You will need passport photos of you and you will need DNA size photos for the babies. You should do the intended part in the US before you leave for India.a You will need to make arrangements of a courier to send you back the CRBA to your home in the US. There is a guy inside the embassy building but outside the room you will be submitting all your paperwork at. He charged 1350 Rs, you need to prepay this. When we went back to pick up the passports, it was confirmed by the embassy that the guy did indeed give them a prepaid envelope to send the CRBA back to us at home. We didn't have any other carrier so we just went with him, but you can go with any courier of your choice, the Embassy just needs a prepaid envelope from you. <br />
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Children’s Social Security Number Application – They gave the application back to us to submit to the local Social Security Office when we get home. They said it takes 3-4 months if you submit it through them but if you submit it back in the US, it will only take a few weeks. <br />
Tax Returns - I brought along copies of last five years but they didn't need it Employment Verification - They didn't need this from us. <br />
Tax Return Transcripts - They did not need this. I like to have more then I need so if I were you I would just request this through the IRS automated system. Doesn't cost anything and it doesn't take much space. Get it for the last 5 years. <br />
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What we brought for baby pickup: We stayed for 2 weeks, we brought <br />
7 packs of diapers (not much difference between preemie and newborn size), <br />
we came home with 2 Five packs of the Costco wipes, that was perfect. <br />
Phil & Ted cocoons are a must <br />
Since our babies were preemies (a little over 4 lbs) - we bought these to put in the cocoons - <a href="http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2539400&locale=en_US">http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2539400&locale=en_US</a> <br />
Newborn clothes were too big, Gerber makes onsies that come in a pack that say for 5-8 lbs - those were OK. Search craigslist for preemie clothes before you leave, if you don't mind used. <br />
Bring lots of swaddler blankets - ours kept getting dirty so we hand washed it but took long to dry. I love the muslin type. <a href="http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3973443">http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3973443</a><br />
Microwave sterilizer bags <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dr-Browns-Microwave-Steam-Sterilizer/dp/B0035LQNNE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1374757738&sr=8-2&keywords=dr+brown+microwave+steam+sterilizer">http://www.amazon.com/Dr-Browns-Microwave-Steam-Sterilizer/dp/B0035LQNNE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1374757738&sr=8-2&keywords=dr+brown+microwave+steam+sterilizer</a><br />
Collapsible Drying rack If you plan to handwash any of the baby items, bring baby detergent.<br />
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Gloves did not fit. I don't know if they sell preemie gloves. Otherwise, just make them yourself or bring the long sleeve onsies where you can fold over the hands. <br />
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Ready made formula nursette – Another item we wished we had for the plane ride. While we were in India, we used Nestle PreNan, the children were very constipated on that. Maybe think about a bringing your own formula from home that is more broken down and easier to digest. <br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-66420132738834344812013-07-17T09:49:00.001-07:002013-07-17T09:49:04.962-07:00Whirlwind and Babymoon<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Life has been very crazy in the last couple of weeks. It has been mostly work, so I apologize for not being very disciplined in writing in this blog. <br />
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I got a new update from the clinic a couple of weeks ago letting me know that the babies were alright. I am so thankful that this has been an uneventful pregnancy. What is interesting is that now the smaller twin has caught up with the bigger twin and they are both around the 50% in almost every measurement. The scans are, and have been, hard to read but I will show them for those interested.<br />
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I’m definitely in baby mode as they say and trying to get everything together (flights, boarding, DNA, visas, etc). I can’t believe they will be here so soon. Today I will tell my direct boss that I will be taking paternity leave and present him with a transition plan. I think everything will go well with that, but I will definitely let you know.</div>
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Another reason I haven’t been able to write in this blog is because I went to Puerto Vallarta for my babymoon. A couple of my friends who met through my basketball league tied the knot after 6 years. It was a beautiful ceremony in an amazing location. I was very grateful to be invited and to have the opportunity to share in such an inspiring experience. Pics to come for sure. There is something about weddings that restores my faith in humankind and love. I was happy to be present. It was also amazing because all my closest friends, who I consider family, were there. We relaxed on the beach all day and partied all night long. What an epic trip. The perfect way to say goodbye to the extreme partying lifestyle that I once engaged in. Time for motherhood.</div>
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-45539759145479872002013-07-05T11:44:00.002-07:002013-07-05T11:44:41.310-07:00What a Birthday Week!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I must admit, my birthday week (yes, I said week), was a bit crazy. That's why I haven't been able to post anything on here. I had an absolute blast!<br />
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Wednesday - My friends organized an amazing dinner at a Korean restaurant. They also made this amazing cake that chronicled my life for the past year... moving to SF from LA, going to India to have babies, AIDS Lifecycle, etc. It is pretty amazing.<br />
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Thursday - We had informal drinks for my sister's Cyncere's Bday. Let's just say that some of us had way too much for our own good, but we all had a blast!<br />
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Friday - We went out in the Castro as it was the beginning of SF pride (Cyncere went out in Oakland)<br />
Saturday - Chilled at crazed Dolores Park, went to house parties, and then Cyncere and I went karoaking! I sang some Britney and Spice Girls so I was happy!<br />
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Sunday- I volunteered to set up the Tennis Booth at SF pride and then Cyncere and I went just enjoyed pride for the rest of the day. Then Cyncere went home and my friends and I went to the Juanita Moore Party. Let's just say it was crazy! I haven't had that much fun in a while. I was.... in a state! You can see me on the right hand side trying to be as discreet as Where's Waldo! =) <br />
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Ever since then I have been working like a crazy person because things at work have gotten very crazy, but I am so thankful for the birthday week. It is at these times that I realize that moving to SF was the RIGHT move.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-69350780210008536332013-06-26T10:48:00.003-07:002013-06-26T10:48:20.446-07:00Third Trimester!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Well so much good news to report, I don’t even know where to start!<br />
Well… I am beginning the 3rd trimester of the pregnancy (YAY!), and from what I am told by SCI the babies are healthy and doing well. They are growing like crazy and the surromom is doing outstanding. Wow, has time flown by. I felt like it was just the other day that I found out about the positive pregnancy. I’m trying to enjoy every minute of this time because I know when the babies come, this precious time I will not have.<br />
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Secondly, Happy Birthday to me! I’m the big ol’ 31! It is what I call my Reggie Miller birthday. His basketball jersey number was 31 and definitely my favorite bball player of all time. In honor of my RM birthday, I am wearing his jersey to work today! This day also marks an important step/milestone. On this day last year, I was on a plane to India to begin this surrogacy process. What an amazing year it has been so far because of this process.<br />
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Tomorrow, I am interview Pediatricians and on Saturday I have my First Aid/CPR classes. This weekend is also LGBT pride here in SF, so the city is bound to be insane. I can’t wait! Another reason the city will be extra special this weekend is because DOMA and Prop 8 were basically overturned, giving LGBT persons more rights related to marriage and benefits than ever before. It gives me hope that this world is getting better and better.<br />
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I am all smiles today! =)<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-69624819118224220862013-06-18T17:24:00.000-07:002013-06-18T17:24:06.779-07:00Happy Father's Day!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Happy Fathers Day<br />
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Happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there. I hope you all had a very relaxing Sunday. It was great to get different cards, phone calls, and text messages even if the babes aren’t here yet. It has been touching and sweet.<br />
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Weekend<br />
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The weekend was super busy with a ton of events to be attended. On Saturday, I organized a Tennis League Social Event that went really well. After that, I went to a Basketball League ‘end of the season’ party. After that, I hung out with Darin. We had a Mediterranean dinner and then went to a Soccer League house party. Then I went out with friends right after that. Let’s just say I was exhausted on Sunday. I decided to postpone my First Aid/CPR classes. In my head, I just wanted to relax on Father’s Day. =)<br />
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Connecting with Other SCI Peeps<br />
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Recently, I have been able to connect with other SCI peeps and it really has been amazing to talk about our journeys. I think it is hard for people to understand what we go through in this process so it has been good to bond with people who really understand. Thanks to all of the SCI peeps that have reached out.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-26723529288456865502013-06-13T09:41:00.001-07:002013-06-13T09:41:44.427-07:00The Kids are Alright!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
During my ALC ride, I got the following email:<br />
<em>Dear Anwar,</em><br />
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<em>Greetings from SCI Healthcare..!!!</em><br />
<em>We hope you are doing fine !!</em><br />
<em>We believe that you enjoyed her last 3D scan. </em><br />
<em>However, now this is the time to move further.</em><br />
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<em>In regards to the same we have performed L's USG scan as per our schedule.</em><br />
<em>Kindly find attached report for the same.</em><br />
<em>Please note that our obstetrician has reviewed the report and noted that everything is fine.</em><br />
<em>All parameters are within normal limit. </em><br />
<em>Your Surrogate mother is really doing a good job and babies are also doing well. </em><br />
<em>We all are very happy to see her progress.</em><br />
<em>Kindly note that her next scan will be done within one month. </em><br />
<em>We will keep you updated.</em><br />
<em>With Regards,</em><br />
<em>Yogita</em><br />
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I can only imagine how big the my surromom is at this point since the babies have literally doubled in size over the last month. Below you will find the scans which are a little less than impressive. I can’t really see much. Maybe I am completely spoiled from the 3-D scans. Third trimester is upon us because currently the babies are at 25 weeks. I can’t believe how quickly the time has passed. It is really incredible. Also, my sister was able to send a ‘save the date’ evite to friends and family and the love has really started to pour in. This has been amazing. I haven’t really expected as much love and support as I have received so I have been pleasantly surprised. Also I have already started receiving some baby gifts! YAY!<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-14880481843521921852013-06-11T16:50:00.003-07:002013-06-11T16:50:38.386-07:00The Ride, The Journey<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I finally did the AIDS Lifecycle, which was a bike ride event from SF to LA over 7 days (545 MILES). It was challenging, scary, exhausting, inspiring, uplifting, and fun. It was amazing because as a collective group of 3K riders we raised $14.2 million dollars, which was an all-time record. This event is the highest grossing fundraising event for HIV/AIDS in the world and it was great to be a part of it. I definitely feel a sense of accomplishment because I hadn’t ever really rode a road bike before February of this year and to do this was so awesome. It also felt great to actually accomplish something that I had wanted to accomplish for years now. This ride was dedicated not only for my babies but for a good friend of mine, in the hope that in the future, HIV/AIDS will be a non-factor. I am thankful for all of the support I received from family and friends. Below you will find some pics from the ride.</div>
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Sunday: 83 miles – My sister dropped me off around 5am and was there to see me off when we had opening ceremony and the send off at 6:30am. I was nervous and excited and had a mini emotional breakdown as I realized I was achieving a dream. Cyncere was there to support me and pump me up. Coming out SF, my FEDex team led the ride out which was awesome. It was super cloudy leaving SF and I got a flat tire within the first hour but a random stranger helped me and I was off after 15 minutes. We rode down the coast and hit beautiful Santa Cruz where there were tons of people windsurfing. I don’t think the pic does the sight justice though.</div>
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Monday: 109 miles – The longest day of the route. It was mostly flat but just a very long day. We rode for 12 hours with many scenic routes across strawberry fields in Monterey to coastal ports where I saw the big group of seals (below). Camp was in King City.<br />
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Tuesday: 67 miles – A Shorter day but the big dreaded ‘QUAD Buster’. It is a huge uphill mountain that is about 3 miles going straight up and very steep; but I made it. Camp was in Paso Robles.<br />
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Wednesday: 98 miles – The day of the Evil Twins. It is this group of big uphill climbs. This was also the day of the halfway point which was an amazing accomplishment in and of itself. This day we went through Pismo Beach and had cinnabuns. Delicious. This was the day I had to get a massage from one of the many massage therapists at each camp. My body was feeling it! Camp was in Santa Maria.</div>
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Thursday: 42 miles – RED Dress Day! Everyone wears a red dress to show support for the red ribbon. My red dress picture to come. It was a shorter day but a hilarious one, nonetheless. We were a scene everywhere we went! These people were crazy. Check out the Orphan Annies below. Camp was in Lompoc.</div>
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Friday: 84 miles – This was by far the most beautiful parts of the ride going through Santa Barbara/Goleta/Montecito. Santa Barbara also had a spot where they gave us free ice cream, brownies, and candy. Camp was is Ventura (home sweet home) where I had at least 10 family and friends waiting for me and cheering me on. What support! The pic below is of me and GMA who was surprisingly gitty about the entire event. There was also a Candle Light vigil that night, which again, the picture doesn’t do justice to.</div>
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Saturday: 61 miles – Finally made it to LA. The funny thing is that the route went right by my GMAs house and Cyncere and her were out cheering the riders on with signs. Cyncere waved the American Flag and GMA had the cowbell! We rode down the famous PCH highway and had lunch at Pepperdine University.</div>
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What I have learned from this experience is the true kindness of strangers. All 2200 riders looked out for another helped each other as we rode down the coast. This experience also restored my faith in the LGBT community. When we want to accomplish something, we CAN come together and make things happen. <br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-63877235311168952862013-05-20T14:41:00.002-07:002013-05-20T19:31:58.661-07:00If you don't do kids, you don't do me!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Heyyyyy! I hope everyone is doing well. I had a good weekend but am currently tired. Mondays are my early days when I get in the office around 6:30am. No complaints though; I’m feeling great inside! I had a good weekend. <br />
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This weekend was productive in terms of the BABY process. I finally finished my baby registry at Target and Amazon.com. I did some spring cleaning and got rid of a lot of stuff in my room to start to make room for the babes. I also found 5 German childrens books at thrift stores, which I’m totally excited about. That ups my count to 7 books. I registered for my First Aid and CPR classes. I’m also going to be registering for swim classes this week. I’m not a great swimmer but want to improve for the sake of my kids just in case anything happens. I guess it is true what they say… your kids make you a better person and stretch you in ways you never thought. It is just funny that it is already happening and they aren’t even here yet. Speaking of the babes’ already present effect, my mom now likes to report to me the twins that she sees as well as any LGBT parents she sees while she is out and about! Gotta love Mom for that!<br />
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Soooo, I’ve been dating a guy named Darin for about 2-3 weeks now. He is a high school photography teacher and he is nice guy. We have had good times together . I hadn’t told him about the babies yet and I’m actually glad I didn’t. In our last date on Friday, he made an off-hand comment that he is not the biggest fan of kids. At that point, I knew not much would come of our relationship. I have now vowed to tell people more upfront where I am with the process and having children.<br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-64823503623612952062013-05-13T10:55:00.000-07:002013-05-13T10:55:30.164-07:00Happy Mother's Day<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
On Friday, I finally finished my Baby Registry at Target with my sister Cyncere. We had a ton of fun with that scanner as you can see below.<br />
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I actually thought we were going to go crazy with the scanner and scan everything but we were quite disciplined. Thank goodness for lists and sticking to them. In the pictures you will see my Baby Bible Binder, that has all of my baby information, plans, calendars, lists, etc. I never do anything baby-related without it. I have a few twin related items to include in the list and then I will be completely done with that.<br />
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After that, I went to the movies and saw The Great Gatsby with Leo DiCaprio. I usually don’t go to the movies because in my opinion it is sooo over-priced but I bit the bullet to see this movie. I guess Leo still has that effect on me. I really enjoyed the movie and the soundtrack. It had so many funny one-liners! If you aren’t into longer (2.5 hour) love stories, I don’t think you should see it, but I’m a big ol’ sucker for a romance!<br />
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Saturday I woke up early (6am) drove up to Sacramento to ride with some of my Fedex Aids Lifecycle teammates. We went 70 miles which is a distance I have gone before, but this time, it took a lot out of me. I think it was because it was 90 degrees outside. Needless to say, I got home around 5-6pm and passed out until midnight. I hate waking up at that time and roaming around the house like a zombie, incapable of going back to sleep. I finally got back to bed around 4pm. Although the ride was harder for me this past weekend, I can’t help but feel excited about this ride since it is only 3 weeks away. I’m most excited about completing the journey but also about not having to train and getting my weekends back. =)<br />
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Yesterday was Mother’s Day so I just wanted to recognize all the amazing mothers out there, including some of those LGBT parents, who at times must play both mother and father. I was tickled but also touched yesterday as I received many messages wishing me a Happy Mother’s Day. It was unexpected, but I must admit, deep down inside it felt good. It felt good because even though my children aren’t in this world yet, I was already being recognized in the very special VIP club called parenthood. <br />
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Anwar Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06375900330593219331noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3084364245600588744.post-31448112488722696792013-05-07T09:55:00.001-07:002013-05-07T09:55:22.846-07:00Where are my (3-D) Glasses?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Last Friday I received the following email:<br />
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<em>Dear Anwar,</em><br />
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<em>Greetings from SCI Healthcare..!!!</em><br />
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<em>We hope you are doing well.</em><br />
<em>We would like to inform you that as per our schedule we have done a level II & 3D scan for L.</em><br />
<em>Please find attached herewith her scan reports.</em><br />
<em>We are pleased to let you know that she is doing perfectly fine and babies are growing well.</em><br />
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<em>Our obstetrician team has reviewed the reports and noted that everything is fine with her and her pregnancy.Dr. Jolly has also captured some of 3D images of babies.We are sure that you will like the same. You can see babies' eyes, nose, lips clearly.</em><br />
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<em>Her next scan will be done within one month.</em><br />
<em>We will keep you updated with her further progress and new status.</em><br />
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<em>With Regards,</em><br />
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Wow… just wow! This stuff is crazy! I can’t believe how big and developed they are! Although the scans are a bit muddled (probably realistic to what is going on in womb), I am so happy that the clinic sent them. The fun part is going through this process with my Mom and seeing and hearing her amazement on how far technology has advanced since she gave birth to her children.<br />
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It is truly amazing. She seems to think the top 3-D scan is of a boy and the bottom scan is of a girl just given their facial features and how pronounced they are. I can see it but still not completely sure. <br />
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At the beginning of the pregnancy I wanted to know the gender(s) so badly, but at this point, I feel like I can definitely wait until they are born. I guess the more people ask about the genders (which they ask anytime I talk about this process/journey) the more I want to wait. I don’t really subscribe the pink for girls and blue for boys mentality. I’m not trying to be an ultra liberal here, but I just don’t subscribe to the gender bias/conformity/constructs that is pushed in our society. Not knowing the genders, I’m hoping will deter people from buying pink and blue things for the babes! We will see, though! Ok, I’m off my soapbox.<br />
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This weekend I was able to read a significant part of the book Juggling Twins, which I love. My favorite ideas I got from the book so far are:<br />
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1) Everyone brings diapers to the Baby Showers since they never expire and because you can never have enough, especially with twins. These will be so useful in the first 6 months!<br />
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2) The prioritized A list of the very necessary baby furniture and supplies to have in the first 3 months.<br />
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3) It was also refreshing to hear that it is ok to receive hand-me-downs on some things except for Baby Bottles and Car Seats. I was struggling with this question but reading the authors thoughts gave me some perspective on it all.<br />
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This past week I have also completed my research on potential pediatricians and finalized 3 potential pediatricians. Now I just have to set up appointments and have an interview with each one of them. My older sister has been pushing this since she found out that I was pregnant so she will be happy to hear that I have actually listened to her (it doesn’t happen often). One of the pediatricians is a Spelman graduate (alma mater of my sister Cyncere) so I’m leaning towards her but we will see how the interviews will go.<br />
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All of the above things have gotten me so excited about the babes. <br />
I’m kinda a big bundle of joy these days.<br />
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